Go In Tongue First
One of the leading causes of bad kissing experiences is when one kissing participant leans into that first kiss with their tongue sticking out. First of all, this can be extremely intimidating and disgusting when your partner is coming at you, eyes closed and tongue out. Most people, when having a first kiss, prefer just lips. Tongue is usually something that individuals add later to their kissing. It is better to save it for when you have become comfortable with the task and being with that other person. Always lead with your lips because that is what kissing starts with and what most people are expecting! If you lead with your tongue, there is no knowing what kind of terror the other person is experiencing. Don’t be a dirty kisser; keep your tongue in your mouth when going in for the kiss! Save your physical relationship with your man and never lead with your tongue when kissing.
Most commonly when we witness people kissing either in public or on films, their eyes are shut. Every now and then, they may open their eyes to look at their loved one or look around them. But for the majority of people, keeping your eyes closed when kissing is preferred. Something that you should never do when kissing is to stare at them the whole time it is happening. It might be tempting to see what their reaction is and see their face, but to keep your eyes open the whole time can freak your partner out. If suddenly they opened their eyes slowly and noticed you staring with big eyes right at them, they will most likely be turned off. If you get to a point in a relationship where perhaps keeping your eyes open is okay depending on a situation, then go for it! For first kisses though, it is best to keep your eyes shut to have a good kissing experience.
Too Much Saliva
Another type of bad kissing experiences is usually a result of a person having too much saliva in their mouth when kissing. Don’t be that sloppy person! Be sure that when you go in for a kiss, that you take time to swallow and clear your mouth. Although you may feel weird, there is nothing wrong with swallowing back your saliva in the middle of a make-out session! Better that than having your drool in his mouth. If you have too much saliva in your mouth, it will be a guaranteed way to turn off your man and gross him out. When kissing, most people don’t think about the small exchange of saliva that occurs, but if you let your mouth get too wet it will be the first thing on his mind. Save yourself the embarrassment and awkwardness and never have too much saliva in your mouth when kissing.
Sometimes kissing can be fun to add a little bit of aggression. Whether that is gently biting, pulling hair a bit, or squeezing them a little tighter. One thing you should never do when kissing is be too aggressive. As fun as it may be to be tough on them and feel playful, it is important to be aware of how hard you are biting or how rough you are being to them. They are still human and pain is real! Don’t get too caught in the moment of playful aggression and end up hurting your partner. Be gentle with them and remember that you are still trying to show affection and not actually beat them up! It is a good thing to be aware of how your partner is reacting to your actions, because if they are backing away and have a worried or pained look on their face, they probably are not enjoying it. Playing it rough can be fun, but no one likes to be head-butted. Never be too aggressive when kissing!
Lick His Teeth
The French kiss is a wonderful thing for some people, and for others it isn’t. But if you are going to attempt using your tongue a bit, be sure that you are doing it right! One thing you should never do when kissing is using your tongue to lick his teeth. There is nothing enjoyable to anyone by having someone licking your teeth. All that goes through you brain is germs, the last thing you ate that might still be stuck in there, and total discomfort. Don’t gross your partner by giving his pearly whites a wash with your tongue; let them do that themselves! Keep your tongue close to his and don’t swirl it around like a toilet. If you are set on trying to use tongue, just use a little at first and see how it goes. The thing to keep in mind always when using tongue though is to not lick his teeth!
Pass Your Gum
Ever seen those moments on TV when a boy walks away from kissing a girl and suddenly finds gum in his mouth and excitedly shows his friends? One thing you should never do when kissing is to pass your gum to your partner! No matter what the shows tell you, there is nothing sexy about a chewed piece of rubber that has been in every space of your teeth being passed on into your partner’s mouth. If you think about it, that’s what it really is – sharing pre-chewed food and germs with another. It can be especially terrible if your partner has no clue what you are about to do and you pass your gum to him. It will probably leave him disgusted and avoiding your kisses for some time to come. Save yourself some trouble and throw your gum out or put it in the back of your mouth when kissing. Don’t go sharing.
Don’t Start Thinking About Other Things
One of the most embarrassing things you can do when kissing is to accidentally let out a burp in their mouth. There will be nothing more traumatizing for both you and your partner when this occurs. To avoid this, ensure that if you are on a date that you stay away from carbonated drinks, especially if you know kissing is on the table later! In some cases you will be able to swallow back your burp when kissing. It is important to continue to be aware of your body when kissing and avoid embarrassing yourself. If it cannot be helped and you know the burp is going to come up, do yourself and your partner a favor and break the kiss and turn away. Do not burp into their mouth. Sure it might still be a bit embarrassing that you burped, but it will be less terrible then letting your belch go straight into their open and embracing mouth! Never burp when kissing!
Leave Him Gasping For Air (Literally)
Kissing sessions can sometimes get intense and you both will find that you are gasping for air. The heat of the moment has taken away your breath and left your heart racing! This is all fine, but be sure to never leave your partner gasping for air because you have not given them the chance to breath! This usually occurs when you are kissing so hard that you have your face pressed so close to his that he has no chance to take in a breath. Let your man breathe! It is one thing to leave him gasping for air because you are taking his breath away, but it is not good when he literally cannot breath. Be sure to give your faces some space so you can either suck in a breath through your mouth or continue to breathe normally through your nose. You sure wouldn’t want your partner passing out on you mid-kiss!